Tell why must we at times wait for love how do we know if it will or will not come honestly i say this because every keeps telling me you have to be strong  the right man will come soon enough i feel like this about that situation i feel like if there is a soul mate out there for every one than why is so hard to find him you can spend our whole life waiting for THE ONE but how will you know if he is the one my thing is ho many toads must i kiss until i find a prince or that needle in that big pile of hay i don't know for sure but what i do know is this out of  all the men that i have been with i found that i have been jumping from one meaningless relationship to the next because i felt that it was safe but know i am starting to see that there is no safe haven in that why get myself caught up in the wrong guy when i can get caught in the right one i mean that's not how i want live the rest of  my life feeling skeptical of each and ever guy i come in counter with i want to be able to get rid of those bag of the pass so the next relationship i do get in to can be a great one and live that life being at peace and tranquility  not shuffling from one screw up to he next to me its crazy though i say that because all the men iv'e dated in the pass was only after one thing as far as i know it cheap sex they where only in getting there little dicks wet yeah it would be a quick fuck but if you don't love or care for the person you fucking the why fuck them i mean honestly why spend your life dealing with a man you know don't love you or whom your not compatible with that's a waste of that part of  your life when you can spend your time with someone you really want to be with and that how i feel.